annyeong ! ! :))
haven't post any blurbs for a while now . .
so i guess i'll talk about something that is hugely related to us . .
bear with me ok ? [if u don't wanna then don't read :P]
nobody's perfect .
yup , that's true . everyone makes mistakes . .
we can't run away from that fact . .
BUT !
we learn from our mistakes right ?
n we don't repeat it . .
so , if u want to change yourself , wouldn't it be better if u look in the mirror n ask yourself :
"what did i do before ?" , "why am i like this? "
or something like that ?
or maybe ,
"why do people hate me ?" , "why don't i have any friends ?"
n so on . .
if u're just saying that u want to change , but repeat what u've done , what's the point on saying u want to change ? ?
pointless ok ? pointless !
yes , i'm not that much of a person to say something like this , but , i know myself more than anyone else does .
if i know i did something wrong , i'll face that person n tell him/her that i'm wrong n apologize . .
however , i'll never apologize if i'm sure it's not my fault . .
plus , i won't be going around n tell people this n that to prove that i was right . .
that's how i see myself , n i don't care how people see me . .
b'coz , in the end , we have to stand on our own feet right ?
why do we have to rely on people when we can rely on ourselves ? ?
the point is , if u're really sorry , n want to change yourself , make some effort n CHANGE !
if u're just saying things n doesn't mean it , don't say it !
u're wasting your own precious time ! !
ok , i admit that i'm not good with people myself , n i hate a lot of things around me . .
but still , if u don't know how to cooperate with all those things , why live ? ?
just go n rot somewhere !
if u can't take criticism , then don't critique others !
if u don't want to be judged , then don't judge others !
if u hate people talk bad about u , don't talk bad about others !
it's the same way around . .
if u want people to be nice to u , n appreciate your existence , then treat them the same way !
by doing this , u'll find the reason to live right ?
don't go saying "oh , he/she is so _____________" n get mad when u heard them says the same thing about u !
remember this :
before you assume , learn the facts .
before you judge , understand why .
before you speak , think .
before you hurt someone , feel .
well , that's just a piece of my mind . .
if what i say above doesn't meet your expectation , then leave . .
i never ask anyone to read my blog . .
if u really wanna change , then learn from your mistakes .
don't expect people to change , if u don't change yourself . .
i've read someone says this before , n i couldn't agree more . .
i hope all of u will understand what's it meant from 'learn from your mistakes' . .
"the only mistakes you've made is , never learning from your mistakes."
-Jader
till then , arrivederci .
